Wastewater treatment engineering is what I have been doing for a living since 1988, so I know a thing or two about sewage and chemistry. The short answer is this: I would not hesitate to put 25 gallons of lye bath water down the drain regardless if the drain went to a septic tank or to a municipal sewer. If you are interested, my thoughts on the subject are below. I have had a 35 gallon lye bath for over 15 years and I have only started over one time. It was a pain in the a$$ to carry all of those buckets to the drain I used. An option is to take some percentage of the bath out every year and replace it with fresh water and another pound or two of lye.
1. The municipal collection and treatment system will never be affected by any amount of lye bath water you could possibly put down the drain in a 24 hour period.
2. If the pH is greater than 12.5 it will make the lye bath water a hazardous waste. This was discussed on the forum once before. See
https://www.epa.gov/hw/defining-hazardous-waste-listed-characteristic-and-mixed-radiological-wastes#corrosivity.
However, Congress granted an exemption for households, so you are permitted to dispose of waste via the sewer. See 40 CFR 261.4 or
https://www.epa.gov/hw/household-hazardous-waste-hhw#:~:text=Specifically%2C%20wastes%20covered%20by%20the,by%20consumers%20in%20their%20homes.
3. If you are on a septic tank, keep in mind that the typical septic tank holds 1,500 gallons. That is 12,500 pounds of water to dilute however many pounds of lye you used setting up your lye bath.
4. Since it is
spent lye bath water, a lot of the sodium hydroxide will have reacted with the grease on your utensils. That will mitigate the a lot of the alkalinity and high pH. The fact that the lye solution is no longer effectively cleaning the the crud off of your pans should tell you that most of the lye is gone.
5. The biological activity in a septic tank will buffer the wastewater within, so the pH is not likely to get to the point of killing the bacteria.
6. Yes, concentrated caustic soda will react with lead and a few other metals. But we are talking about lye bath water, which is really quite dilute. If you are worried, flush your toilet or pour a few buckets of water down the drain as a "chaser."
7. Trying to neutralize the lye bath water is probably a waste of time. What acid are you going to use? You would have to use gallons of vinegar, but how many gallons? Unless you have a pH meter or pH test strips, how will you know when you have neutralized the waste?
8. Yes, the sodium ions from the lye will get into the water supply eventually. But there is already lot of sodium as well as other harmless ions present in the water. There are persistent organic chemicals in our rivers and groundwater that are much more of a concern than sodium, the effects of which are only now being understood. If you live in New Jersey or along the Ohio River, you probably know what I am referring to.
9. Russell makes a good point about the sludge. Unless you can keep it suspended it in a lot of water, it may settle out and clog your drain. You would be better off scraping the sludge out of the bottom of the container and solidifying it with kitty litter of some type. Then just put it in the trash. Again, the household waste exemption applies.